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Meditate on Suffering – The Power of Engaging What Bothers Us

Imagine meditating while you're suffering, what does that feel like? What if, instead of trying to run away from your disturbing emotions, you engage with them and see them for what they really are, temporary and impermanent? How do you think your life would change if you were able to be with whatever arises within your mind in a state of grace and peace, instead of constantly running after the good thoughts and fleeing what makes you suffer? Would your life be different?

2021-09-26T23:06:21-06:00By Jerome Stone|Meditation Tip of the Week|11 Comments

How to Meditate: Choose Your Thoughts

Many of us are working on trying to become more aware of what we put into our bodies. We've come to realize that certain foods, while tempting or alluring, aren't really good for us. And so, we've become choosy - even vigilant - in deciding what to eat. But, do we do this with our thoughts?

2021-09-26T23:01:17-06:00By Jerome Stone|Meditation Tip of the Week|3 Comments

Meditation Tip of the Week: Investigate the Nature of Thoughts…They’re Not Real!

MEDITATION TIP OF THE WEEK MEDITATION TIP OF THE WEEK IS A WEEKLY SERIES OF EASY TO REMEMBER, SHORT AND BASIC TIPS ON MEDITATION. PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK, IS IT HELPFUL? Many people think that in order to meditate, we have to rid our mind of thoughts and of the things that distract it; that we have to shut out the world in order to come to really know our mind. Nothing could be further from the truth. Meditation isn’t about stopping thoughts or shutting anything out. It’s about being who we truly are in the midst [...]

2019-10-24T13:46:48-06:00By Jerome Stone|Meditation Tip of the Week|3 Comments

Can Difficult Thoughts and Emotions Serve You as a Nurse?

Minding the bedside, remaining mindful, aware, and compassionate in the presence of those we care for, comes from turning the mind, re-turning the mind inward; transforming the stormy arisings of thoughts, emotions and feelings and recognizing them to be impermanent phenomena, like passing clouds in the sky.

2017-04-10T13:50:09-06:00By Jerome Stone|Nursing|0 Comments

How To Meditate: Ten Reasons Not to Meditate!

This post is inspired by my friend Erric Solomon, blogger and administrator on the site, What Meditation Really Is. His post, Ten Reasons Why We Should Never Meditate, inspired me to write a similar post. I know that this site is loaded with advice and how to meditate, where to meditate and why you should meditate. But...maybe you shouldn't meditate. Maybe meditation is really a waste of time, a waste of time that you could be using for other things like surfing the internet, watching TV or playing video games (the list goes on, doesn't it?!) Here is a list, [...]

2015-01-28T19:04:36-07:00By Jerome Stone|Meditation|4 Comments